The practice of complaining about your circumstances and finding fault with others often become the preoccupation of your Christian conversation. You know that this is wrong, but it is easy for you to fall into this trap. The Apostle Paul encourages, “joyously  giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light” (Col 1:12). When you look to Jesus and all that He has prepared for you who is flawed, you realize that you will spend eternity with Him and these other flawed believers whom you criticize. so rejoice and not find fault in others.